All parents have big dreams for their children. But most often, the dreams or aspirations are limited to the professional arena. If you ask a parent what he/she plans for his/her child, the most likely answer would be something related to either academics or sports or maybe the arts. Yes, all parents aspire for their children to excel in academics, or in sports or maybe make a mark as a noted singer or artist. And they do spend money, time and efforts to arrange for their children to receive the best of training, facilities and opportunities to achieve those dreams.
But how many parents have you heard say, “I want my child to become a good human being who is of strong character, is helpful, generous and loving.” Maybe parents don’t say this because this is taken for granted. Well, of course, all parents want to see in their children a deep sense of integrity, honesty and character. So is it something that needs to be specially worked on?
Yes, simply put, IT IS. All human beings are born good. It is only the circumstances, such as parents, family environment, social environment, friends, peers and others that lead them to develop certain character traits.
When raising children, it is vitally important for parents to instill good values, wisdom and awareness in children to help them develop strong and compassionate character traits. Honesty, integrity, tolerance, love, compassion and respect are values that need to be instilled right from the tender years to enable the child to grow up with these values ingrained in their psyche. If you look for parenting advice on how to develop these values, start with simple acts that children can easily identify with.
Charity is one such essential value and habit all parents must instill in their children. Charity as they say, begins at home. For parents, it is extremely important to teach children how to give back to people in need and to the society as a whole. What we teach children in the formative years will have a strong influence on them in the future. Hence, teaching the value of charity to children should become an everyday part of life.





